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There is excellent support from the local palliative care teams and though most people will be referred to the service by a GP or other clinician once you are under the service you can contact them directly. You may also be able to self-refer.
From Rennie Grove Hospice Care
Buckinghamshire Palliative Care Team includes nurses and palliative care doctors
From Thames Hospice
“If you have been diagnosed with a life-limiting illness, you can also refer yourself to our services using our online referral forms.” Get a referral | Thames Hospice
From Marie Curie
Care and support through terminal illness
How we can support you by telephone How we can support you
From Macmillan Cancer Support
End of life: How we can help with chat online and telephone support. (Scroll down page to see helpline details) End of life – Macmillan Cancer Support
From Compassion in Dying
Contact Us: “Our nurse-led information line is free of cost and free of judgement. We’re here for you, whether you’re preparing for the years ahead or need us right now.” Contact us – Compassion in Dying in Dying
From the NHS
Very helpful guide “End of life” covering many aspects worth considering
From Hospice UK (Dying Matters)
From Age UK
From Patient info
From Cancer Research UK
From Rennie Grove Hospice Care
Buckinghamshire Palliative Care Team
From Macmillan Cancer Support
End of life – Macmillan Cancer Support
From Marie Curie
From Independent age
Planning for the end of life | Independent Age
From NICE
From the Royal College of General Practitioners
End of life and palliative care toolkit
The clinical toolkit resource has been created for primary healthcare professionals, patients and carers.
From the NHS
This includes links at the bottom of the page to other websites covering care in the last days of life
From Buckinghamshire Healthcare NHS Trust
From NICE
From Patient info
How to talk about your end of life care wishes | Patient
From the NHS
Do not attempt cardiopulmonary resuscitation (DNACPR) decisions – NHS
From Resuscitation council UK
CPR Decisions, DNACPR and ReSPECT | Resuscitation Council UK
An Advance care plan (Statement) is not a legal document but gives an idea of your wishes for your end-of-life care
An advance decision is legally binding in England and Wales
From Patient info
End of Life Care | Patient
From the NHS
Advance statement about your wishes – NHS
There is detailed information and support for completing advanced statements found under
From the NHS
Advance decision (living will) – NHS
There is detailed information and support for completing advanced decisions found under
Everyone knows that at some point in their life they will die. Many people will complete a Will many decades before their death (often because they want to avoid the difficulties of completing a Will around their death). Increasingly the same is true for Lasting Power of Attorney.
However, most people will plan what they want to happen around their death only when they are approaching death. This is understandable but the difficulty is that this requires a better understanding when death might occur.
Sometimes a conversation about death between a clinician (community or hospital based) and a patient (and their family) can be straightforward occurring when a patient shows signs of significant deterioration, or has a terminal illness diagnosis or after multiple hospital admissions. However, often it can be difficult as the risk of death is not clear to both the patient or the family. Furthermore, with people living to older ages, if the patient dies when the family do not have insight into the risk of death then they can understandably feel let down. Providing a better understanding can help patients and their families plan for death.
What are predictors of end of life?
As the British Geriatric Society suggest
“Identification is often through situational diagnosis combining clinical indicators indicating end of life need including:
What are frailty and multiple morbidity?
These important terms are explained in more detail by Patient info
Frailty and Multimorbidity | Assessment and Prevention | Patient
As the British Geriatric Society suggest for care home patients
“The average life expectancy in UK care homes is 24 months for care homes without nursing and 12 months for care homes with nursing. This belies a much more complex picture, where some residents enter a home with one or more rapidly deteriorating medical conditions. Many of this group die shortly after admission, while another group of residents live in care homes for much longer. It follows that all care home residents should be considered for end-of-life care, but it should not be taken for granted that all will need it straight away.” End of Life Care in Frailty: Care homes | British Geriatrics Society
It is clear that many of the predictors of an end-of-life need can apply in many patients who are housebound (not physically able to leave their home). This is particularly true of frailty as by definition many housebound patients do not have the mobility to leave their home.
One of the difficulties for families of patients who have multiple unplanned admissions or a prolonged admission is that they will understandably remember and focus on what their loved one was like before a prolonged admission or multiple admissions. Though with the excellent rehabilitation available patients can improve they often do not return to their condition before the admission and if combined with other risk factors can signify that they may develop an end-of-life need. This process can be relatively gradual and can be harder for families to accept.
Though no one can precisely predict an end of life need an understanding that end-of-life care should be considered can be very helpful. This can facilitate a conversation between clinicians and patients and their families at a much earlier stage and allow patients and families to come to terms with and plan for death, and understand events which might unfold sometimes more rapidly than expected. In addition, it can support conversations about the value of a hospital admission or if already in hospital what treatments and investigations are being planned and how beneficial they actually are for the patient’s present condition. It can also help with decisions around care in a patient’s own home or in a care home and what might be considered best.
From the BMJ and Edinburgh University
Though this video is intended for clinicians it visually explains very simply when palliative care might be considered and why the conversations between doctors and patients and between patients and their families could happen much earlier than they often do.
Palliative care from diagnosis to death – YouTube
From Marie Curie
Terminal illness benefits and finances
From Gov UK
Get benefits if you’re terminally ill – GOV.UK
There is good local and national support after someone dies
From Marie Curie
Some easy read leaflets covering end of life care Easy read
From Macmillan Cancer Support
be.macmillan – End of life and bereavement
Marie Curie have provided some helpful and detailed booklets covering end of life care
A list of all our resources and booklets for anyone affected by terminal illness in the UK Browse all Marie Curie publications
There are also books you can borrow from your local library (for your closest library see under council) or buy, for example
From Kathyrn Mannix (a retired palliative care consultant who worked in the NHS)
With the End in Mind – Kathryn Mannix